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Another way to lead your partner into it if you’re both feeling awkward, is to set up a roleplay scenario. For example, “Remember when we were in Aruba and I was teasing you on the beach with my cleavage and later the sex was soooo hot?
Lauren suggests, “Imagine I’m a sex robot you can program to do whatever you want. Imagine if I had done [insert alternative sexy activity].” Some jumping off points, should you need: “What if you realized I was wearing a strap-on under my bikini?
Think of as many different scenarios as you can: the library, the back of your car, Paris, in an airplane, at a Costco, etc.
As for roleplay scenarios, Lauren suggests: cop, sexy nurse.
Be sure you trust your partner and that he/she won’t weaponize them against you later.
Phone sex is a great and safe place to talk about the things you wouldn’t or couldn’t do in real life.“Imagine if we were at an elegant restaurant, and you were under the table cloth, eating me out while the waiter took our order.” or, “what if we were at a party full of sexy people and they all just started f*cking in front of us?”Make like your favorite reality show stars and start spilling!Try teasing your partner like you’re also a music streaming service who refuses to give in to Taylor Swift's demands.Lauren suggests “setting the stage” with a quick call or flirty text that will make your partner really look forward to talking with you.